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[灌水] 真的郁闷到了

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发表于 2010-6-19 23:14:00 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
今晚和一个朋友吵架了。郁闷得很。居然我在他那儿就是一自私不懂事被宠坏有目的的人~!
把聊天记录贴出来,做为一个鉴证,到底我们是哪个在那儿闹、
linge
22:06:51

how come you dont still talk to me?
(linge is using QQ International, click here to learn more:
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雪卿
22:07:17

lin ge
雪卿
22:07:25

how do i know you are online
雪卿
22:07:36

then how can i talk with you
linge
22:07:53

before you know
linge
22:08:06

how come you dont know now
linge
22:08:23

you dont leave message for me
linge
22:08:37

you dont talk to  me in person
雪卿
22:08:56

that's because you did not give me any information
linge
22:09:06

you only talk to me in front of your classmates
雪卿
22:09:05

what should i give to you
linge
22:09:56

so i think what you are telling me is really you not me
linge
22:10:19

hey am i bothering you?
linge
22:10:34

you might be chatting with your bf
雪卿
22:10:59

do not 八卦ing
linge
22:11:10

dont worry i am not angry
linge
22:11:29

and i am really asking?
linge
22:11:52

ok i will let you two alone
雪卿
22:11:58

no lin ge
linge
22:12:15

thats the real reason why you dont talk to me anymore
雪卿
22:12:17

he is busy with his study now and i am not talking with him
雪卿
22:12:22

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linge
22:12:29

thats ok
linge
22:12:40

not a problem
雪卿
22:12:58

lin ge .
why you like 八卦ing ?

linge
22:13:48

i am not, every time you say that means its true. i caught you
linge
22:13:58

hahaha
雪卿
22:15:10

you are always teasing me like that,seems you are jealous
linge
22:16:00

no i am not jealous, you have all the right to choose who to like
雪卿
22:16:18

yes
linge
22:16:24

but me definitely not jealous.
雪卿
22:16:34

yes?
linge
22:17:12

its just so clear that you dont have any interest in talking to me. and that is true
linge
22:17:33

so i dont have to insist myself
雪卿
22:18:14

cos you are always 八卦 me
linge
22:18:18

there were others who really want s to talk to me, so i talk to them, simple
linge
22:18:39

your always being silly
雪卿
22:18:47

complain
雪卿
22:19:59

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linge
22:20:01

so i just have to leave you alone. i am no longer part of your friendly circle.
linge
22:20:55

thats ok i understand that, so you dont have any rights to tell me or complain if i am friends with your other classmates
雪卿
22:21:01

another complain
雪卿
22:21:13

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linge
22:21:35

you are hard to talk to
linge
22:23:00

i want to  talk to serious people, not like you, i feel you are just playing all the time
雪卿
22:23:33

what do you mean lin ge?
linge
22:25:03

this is my real feeling, i am just a patch. if other foreigners are not around or other special friends.
linge
22:25:35

you will only come to me because theres no more person to talk to.
linge
22:25:45

i can sense that.
雪卿
22:26:09

ok
雪卿
22:26:12

if so
雪卿
22:26:27

you think i am not worth making friends
雪卿
22:26:40

i will not borther you any more
雪卿
22:26:47

i am sorry to make you feel so
雪卿
22:27:22

i am not your friend any more,if you don't want
linge
22:27:40

so i have to let you be. so you canot tell me in front of your classmates that i am the one that does not want to talk to you. well in fact it  was you

for me tht is bad, an indicator of manipulation
雪卿
22:28:14

how can i tell them this ?
linge
22:28:27

i dont like you any more because you are manipulative
linge
22:28:56

in others words you are a brat, a spoiled child
linge
22:29:24

a cute spoiled child, always getting want she wants
linge
22:30:18

so i dont feel like maintaining that frienship,  because i am not a friend to you
linge
22:30:50

you are just using me just like you used others
linge
22:31:18

i am sorry but thats how i feel about you
雪卿
22:32:02

over?
雪卿
22:32:16

do you have some more to say?
雪卿
22:32:39

lin ge
雪卿
22:32:53

please calm yourself down
雪卿
22:33:16

i know i am not perfect,even not good
雪卿
22:33:30

but i still keep my words
linge
22:33:36

i am sorry, but you have to know
linge
22:34:22

so if you want my friendship, you have to treat me like one
雪卿
22:34:58

please be fair and please think about my feeling
雪卿
22:35:07

if you were in my shoes
雪卿
22:35:35

can you understand my feeling?
linge
22:35:37

well you only care about your feelings but you never care about mine
linge
22:35:50

i think you are very selfish
雪卿
22:35:54

yes
雪卿
22:35:59

i am selfish
linge
22:36:01

you only think of yourself
雪卿
22:36:06

i am very bad
雪卿
22:36:17

that's in your minds
雪卿
22:36:27

i will not hope to change it
雪卿
22:36:29

let it be
linge
22:36:44

yes your actions is very different from what you say
linge
22:37:38

you enjoy doing what are not supoose to do
雪卿
22:37:48

i am so sad that's me in your mind,but i can do nothing,right?so,please stop it
雪卿
22:37:59

i know how bad i am in your mind
雪卿
22:38:15

there's no need for you to rpeat
雪卿
22:38:43

i just do not want to quarrel with anyone
linge
22:39:13

hey who came to me crying that you will like to stay with me forever. then when we accept you, you go out and find somebody else
linge
22:40:06

and ignore me all the time
雪卿
22:40:22

yes,and i do not think any of my action did harm to these words
雪卿
22:40:29

please be fair
linge
22:40:59

you are such a confuse girl
linge
22:41:12

i think i am fair
雪卿
22:41:24

yes
雪卿
22:41:25

so
linge
22:41:37

and you should grow up to handle them
雪卿
22:41:47

you said i am selfish because i did not give you any information?
linge
22:42:24

being selfish has nothing to do with any information
linge
22:42:36

its your very intent
雪卿
22:42:56

so what's my intent?
雪卿
22:43:01

please tell me
linge
22:44:04

you only want things for your self
雪卿
22:44:16

so,please tell me what things?
雪卿
22:44:23

i get what from you?
linge
22:45:04

you'll never understand
雪卿
22:45:17

so ,this is your fair?
linge
22:46:24

this talk is over, see i think you know exactly what are your faults and you are just making exuses.
linge
22:46:56

you dont even know the meaning of fair
雪卿
22:47:23

if there is no trusting between friends,i really agree to finish this talk
linge
22:47:26

sorry i dont any point of talking to you any more
雪卿
22:47:40

thank you a lot
linge
22:47:42

then lets finish it
雪卿
22:48:01

sure

这是我们吵架的所有过程
真的郁闷到不行
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-6-19 23:17:18 | 显示全部楼层
一开始就抱怨我不和他说话,然后说我自私,有目的,被宠坏了,只知道获取...好了,把我人格给打翻了一通。
难道说我不可以有自己的生活,我非得时时刻刻和他联系着才叫人格高尚?
什么逻辑!
郁闷~!无比生气~!想大喊~~!
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发表于 2010-6-19 23:21:28 | 显示全部楼层
妹妹,郁闷会伤身体的,且请开怀~
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-6-19 23:38:09 | 显示全部楼层
真的很伤心.....原来我的朋友是这么看我的?
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-6-19 23:39:20 | 显示全部楼层

回 2楼(admin) 的帖子

谢谢~~
真想哭一场。我的朋友这样子看我的,原来他是这样子看我的
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发表于 2010-6-20 11:12:53 | 显示全部楼层

Re:回 2楼(admin) 的帖子

引用第4楼飞花花主于2010-06-19 23:39发表的 回 2楼(admin) 的帖子 :
谢谢~~
真想哭一场。我的朋友这样子看我的,原来他是这样子看我的


妹妹,实在难过就哭一会,我来陪你~

昨天在单位加班,几乎每个办公室里都有人在忙碌,正和同事谈话之时,听到走廊里有人狂喊了一声,声音落地,大家惊诧也不禁苦笑不已,在精神紧张、工作疲累的情况下这样的释放方式也不错,我们都会遇到这样那样的问题,而如何去消解是一个很重要的问题,总之,不能让自己在郁闷的环境中太久,及早排解,对我们心身都有好处的~
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-6-20 16:54:23 | 显示全部楼层

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谢谢姐姐~今天找朋友出来去胡逛了一圈,感觉好多了。她说,很多事我必须学着去承受,以后我要承受的更多。好的,我不再郁闷
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发表于 2010-6-20 19:16:25 | 显示全部楼层

Re:回 5楼(汀芷幽兰) 的帖子

引用第6楼飞花花主于2010-06-20 16:54发表的 回 5楼(汀芷幽兰) 的帖子 :
谢谢姐姐~今天找朋友出来去胡逛了一圈,感觉好多了。她说,很多事我必须学着去承受,以后我要承受的更多。好的,我不再郁闷


逛街购物,还可以试着写一些文字,听听音乐等,咱们的音乐版面有很多不错的帖子,尽情享受下。
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发表于 2010-6-21 15:33:39 | 显示全部楼层
英文不错。快跑。
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